Ah, my home town. While there’s no way possible to fit the entire city into 48 hours, I’m here to give you some of the highlights that take you from the Financial District in lower Manhattan, up to the Upper West Side. And if you’re in the city and need a tour guide, I’ve got you covered there, too! Let’s take a look at what to do in New York when you only have 48 hours.
7:00pm – Get settled into the Hudson at Columbus Circle
This is my favorite hotel in Manhattan, and when I need a stay-cation I always book a room at the Hudson. Their lobby is decorated with vines and chandeliers, and the courtyard is gorgeous. They also have The Library bar, which features signature cocktails, including the delicious Honey and the Bee’s. The rooms are rather small, but they are cozy and have style. Start your weekend by getting settled, then heading down for a cocktail at The Library.
8:30pm – Dinner at Beauty & Essex
Head down to the Bowery and get ready for a real treat! You’ll walk in through a pawn shop to a beautiful open two story restaurant decorated like a speakeasy. You’re going to want to eat everything on the menu but I recommend the tomato soup dumplings with a bacon-cheese dumping, the beef carpaccio, and the sliders. Plus, they have a great wine and beer list, and delicious cocktails. Make a reservation in advance though. This place gets packed, and quick!
10:30pm – Christopher Street for drinks and dancing
Head on down to Christopher Street and Sheridan Square for drinks and dancing the night away. Some of New York’s best bars are all within walking distance, including The Monster, where Dan Daly can be heard tickling the ivories several nights a week for karaoke. Across the street is The Duplex, which happens to be my first gay bar experience in New York City. Down Christopher, you have Ty’s and Rockbar, which are sure to please.
1:30pm – Street Halal
If there’s one thing New York is full of, it’s street food carts. Get yourself the chicken over rice, extra white sauce. I promise, you won’t be disappointed.
10:00am – Brunch at Maison Pickle on the Upper West Side
This is Jacob’s Pickle’s sister restaurant, currently housing Jacob’s Pickle’s brunch menu due to a recent fire. Get the open-faced chicken biscuit sandwich covered in mushroom gravy. You’re welcome.
11:30am – Walk through Central Park
Want to go people-watching? Take a long walk through Central Park. You’re bound to see people of every variety in there. My advice is to find yourself a park bench, take a seat, and watch the parade of people and puppies. You’ll find me there, too, I’m sure.
2:00pm – Exploring Greenwich Village
This is one of the most famous parts of Manhattan. Just take a cab or the A train down to West 4th street, get out, and walk in any direction to explore this fun neighborhood. Head over to Magnolia Bakery for some sweet treats, too. Get the banana pudding for sure.
4:30pm – World Trade Center Observatory and September 11 Memorial
If you haven’t been to the 9/11 Memorial yet, it’s worth a visit. The site is so peaceful and great for reflection. In the spirit of rebirth and growth, head up to the One World Trade Center for the observatory. You’ll see a great view of Manhattan, New Jersey, and all five boroughs.
6:30pm – Dinner at Sotto 13
This restaurant in Chelsea is quite cozy and features an American-Italian menu with great cocktails and a fun atmosphere. The wait staff are all very friendly, but definitely make a reservation first.
8:00pm – Catch a show!
You’re not far from Times Square, so maybe catch a show! One of my current favorites it Waitress, a funny and heart-warming story based on the 2007 film of the same name. Or, see one of my favorite actresses, Allison Janney, in Six Degrees of Separation. She’s positively brilliant.
10:30pm – After-dinner drinks at Bourbon Street Bar
Really, you can just walk around Hell’s Kitchen and duck into any of the bars, but I’ve recently fallen for Bourbon Street Bar on 46th St between 8th and 9th avenues.
11:00am – Brunch at The Stand
Seriously, this one is not to be missed, unless you have a flight out of New York that afternoon. $45 gets you unlimited mimosas, Bloody Mary’s, and screwdrivers, plus entrees.
2:00pm – Battery Park before heading out
This is just a fun little part of town and a nice place to have a cup of coffee outside before you head home!
There you have it! A great 48 hours in Manhattan awaits you! Let me know when you’re here!
Originally posted 2017-06-15 03:30:36.
Weekly: 48 Hours in Nashville – Music City, and So Much More!
Ah, Music City USA, home to Hot Chicken, The Grand ‘Ol Opry, and the Tennessee Titans, arguably one of the NFL’s worst teams in history. Still, the city is alive and vibrant. With millions of tourists flocking to the city yearly to visit the biggest sites in country music, it can be difficult to find the right places to visit to have a truly local experience. Fortunately for you, I’m a born and raised Nashville native, so I’ve got all the great eats, sites, and sounds for your truly original Nashville weekend. Let’s dive right in.
One of Nashville’s most famous attractions is the Opryland Hotel, a city within a city, located right next to Opry Mills shopping mall, with downtown shuttles leaving every 30 minutes. The hotel has several great restaurants and bars in it, but you won’t be spending too much time in the hotel this weekend. Still, it’s a unique experience that I’d recommend, and the rates aren’t too bad!
One of my all time favorite restaurants, Moto, offers a unique take on Italian foods with savory dishes that are sure to please even the pickiest of taste buds. I’m partial to their Brussels sprouts and their duck course. Mix that with craft cocktails and you’re set for a great meal!
Rhonda and Jhonda have put together Nashville’s premiere LGBTQ bar, with a heavy focus on the “L” but all are welcome. The bar tenders are funny and quirky, the atmosphere is eclectic, and the music is always on point.
Waffle House is not a place you go during daylight hours. It should specifically only be open from 8pm to 6am, and should only cater to drunk people. After your night out, head to any of the 40 Waffle Houses in Nashville get yourself scattered, smothered, covered, and chunked. If you don’t know what that means, you’ll learn, and you’ll thank me later.
Head across the parking lot from your hotel to Opry Mills and pick out a new outfit for your night out on the town. With hundreds of stores and over a mile of interior shopping in a loop you’re guaranteed to find something.
Now, hot chicken is highly debated in Nashville. Whether you’re on the right side of the fence and love Hattie B’s like me, or you prefer the lesser quality Prince’s Hot Chicken, make sure you get out there and get your mouth burned within an inch of it’s life. Trust me, it’s worth it.
3:00pm – The Gulch for Shopping, Coffee, and People Watching
Ah, Nashville, the new hipster heaven. Congratulations, Portland, they’ve officially out-hipstered you. I love the Gulch just to grab a coffee or a bear to go people-watching. You’re bound to see some bears with beers wearing plaid shirts and rolled up jeans.
This sushi restaurant offers one of Nashville’s best rooftop bar experiences. Their bartenders are ready to mix up anything you throw at them, or ask them to come up with a drink themselves. My favorite is to give them three adjectives and see what they come up with. You may also want to grab a roll or two while you’re there. Enjoy the view!
Make a reservation! This place fills up very quickly. Located in the up-and-coming 12 South neighborhood, you’ll dine on contemporary American farmhouse cuisine. From their website, “The restaurant focuses on simple, classically composed recipes accompanied by a small but carefully selected wine list in a soft industrial space that emphasizes a sense of home. Chef Andrew Little’s expertise and dedication to cooking—not just by the seasons, but by the day— has garnered him praise for the food he serves and the innovative and inspired way in which it is presented. Perfect for everyday dining or special occasions, Josephine is an experience that carries an air of ease; a great time takes care of itself.”
10:00pm – Tribe, PLAY, and Canvas
Head over to Church Street for all the gay bar action you might want! From Tribe’s trendy cocktail lounge vibe, to PLAY’s dance floors and drag shows, to Canvas, a more laid back yet fun and enthralling environment, Church Street has it all. Trust me, the Nashville gay nightlife will definitely take you to Church. (See what I did there?)
This is right next to Moto in the Gulch and is the best brunch in town, in my humble opinion. In Nashville you cannot go wrong with brunch options, but this one features Spanish twists on brunch classics, and their spicy Bloody Mary is smack-your-momma good.
Head over to Nashville’s best art museum, The Frist, to see what new exhibits they have showing. If you’re buzzed from brunch, this is a short walk from Saint Anejo, and the modern art will give you fun thoughts!
Your weekend in Nashville has come to a close, but you’ve lived it to the fullest. There’s a lot to do and see, but you’ve packed in some of the best activities! Congratulations on a weekend well spent!
Originally posted 2017-06-15 01:48:21.
Weekly: 48 Hours In Miami – A Little Fun in the Sun!
Summer is approaching, and it’s getting hot! Welcome to my new series. For the next 12 weeks I’ll be bringing you info on 6 different cities, and how you can make the most out of a summer weekend! I’m a beach bum so my first stop is Miami, which was my home for about 6 months. I absolutely fell in love with this city, it’s culture, it’s art scene, the food, and the beaches! Let’s take a look at how you should spend 48 hours in Miami!
You’re arriving, probably from Miami International Airport. Best option is to grab an Uber and head over to your hotel, The Shelbourn, to check in. Feel free to grab a quick nap, as the night is just getting started. When I lived in Miami, we would get off work around 5pm (sometimes earlier) and have a rest before heading out for the night. So, sleep for about an hour, then get ready, because it’s going down!
The night. Starts. Now!
You’ll love sitting outside in this Tiki style bar and restaurant with a pool in the middle. Bring your suit and jump in if you so desire! You’re going to want to get the Pain Killer. It’s a delicious fruity drink that stays true to it’s word and will definitely remove all pain. This drink comes in three levels, Pain Killer 1, 2, & 3, and corresponds with the number of rum shots. My advice, start with a 3, then work your way down! Remember, the night is young and so are you!
This place quickly became my favorite, and you’ll love it, too. Just like the name of the restaurant, they serve burgers and beer! My favorite is the Hotel California, a delicious beef patty topped with sharp cheddar, frilled onions, fried egg, guacamole, jalapeño relish, cilantro sour cream all on a brioche bun. Trust me, it’ll keep you going strong while you party the night away.
One of Miami’s best nightclubs in town. This bar has great music and dancing, and you’ll want to stay all night, but it’s just your first stop. Have a drink or two, do some dancing, and get ready for your next stop.
Now the night hits it’s high point. This bar features 7 different areas, each with their own theme, from the British pub to the techno dance club. You’re sure to enjoy delicious cocktails, a great beer list, and decent wine selections.
4:00am – Uber back to the Shelbourn
12:00pm – Rise and shine, breakfast at the hotel
Let’s face it, you partied hard, didn’t you? Don’t go far. Today is dedicated to hanging out at the cabanas by the pool, walking down to the beach for a while, and lounging around. You’ll start with breakfast by the pool and maybe a mimosa or bloody Mary. Then it’s ultimate relaxation!
8:00pm – Dinner on Espanola Way
Take your pick. There are a dozen restaurants here to choose from, and none of them will disappoint. Whether you want a quiet sit-down spot, or you want something a little more Latin with dancing and lively music, you’ll find it all on this street!
10:00pm – Club Boi
This might get a little wild… Head over to Club Boy for hip-hop, Latin, Top 40, and R&B music, plus strippers! YOLO, right?!
This place is not to be missed, but get there on time and get a porch seat so you can enjoy the breezes from the ocean not but a block away, as well as the ceiling fans that will keep you cool and comfortable. Try the Crab Cake Eggs Benedict and have a Bloody Mary for me!
This world famous shopping stretch is the best place to shop ’til you drop. I personally love the people watching, and there are plenty of places around there to grab a quick ice cream or snack if you get hungry! It’s the perfect way to end your trip to Miami!
After 48 hours, you’ll be heading back to the airport a little more tan, with less liver function, and a greater love for Latin food and Latin music!
Who’s joining me?
Originally posted 2017-06-15 01:27:17.
48 Hours in Kuala Lumpur
Kuala Lumpur is a major stopover city and many people break their journey there en route to a final destination. It’s a city that is well-suited to a forty-eight-hour visit and there is more than enough to keep the visitor busy for a couple of days. Kuala Lumpur is truly multicultural. Although distinctly Malaysian, it is also greatly influenced by the Chinese and Indian immigrants who have made the city their home. A variety of other minorities add to the unique character of the city.
Skyscrapers sit next to crumbling traditional buildings. The aroma of delicious street foods tempt passersby. The muezzin’s call to prayer echoes through the streets, while incense wafts from Buddhist temples. In contrast to its spiritual side, Kuala Lumpur is a shopper’s paradise. The city’s commitment to consumerism is evident in its bustling street markets and modern malls, which can be found throughout the city.
Kuala Lumpur’s airport is one of the largest in South-East Asia. Opened in 1993, the airport is 45 miles south of the city center. It takes 30 minutes to reach Sentral Station, Kuala Lumpur’s downtown transport terminal by train. By taxi, it takes an hour.
A monorail connects many of the major tourist attractions and the transit network is the most cost-effective and efficient way to get around the city.
Kuala Lumpur offers accommodation to suit all budgets. From five dollar dorm beds to five-star hotels and an excellent choice of good value mid-range hotel options in between, finding a crash-pad for a couple of nights shouldn’t be a problem.
Start your city adventure with a tasty breakfast at the Antipodean Café (20 Jalan Telawi 2, Bangsar Baru). Check out the pumpkin and sweetcorn fritters accompanied by bacon – it’s awesome. The coffee is pretty good too. It’s a contemporary café, with cool red and black décor.
The Petronas Twin Towers are the city’s showpiece http://www.petronastwintowers.com.my. At 451 metres high with 88 storeys, it was the highest building in the world until 2003, when it was overtaken by Tapei 101 in Taiwan. Walk across the sky bridge between the 41st and 42nd storeys and then head up to the 86th floor for incredible cityscape views. Whilst in the building, have a wander around the KLCC Shopping Mall, which is at the base of the towers.
Next up, head over to Chinatown and take a stroll down Petaling Street. If you are looking for a bargain, you are likely to find it here. From electrical goods to t-shirts and souvenirs, the street is also well known for its wide selection of imitation brands. It’s also an ideal place to sample some mouth-watering street food including the locally popular salted roast duck.
Just around the corner, you will find Sri Mahamariamman (Jalan Tun H S Lee), the city’s oldest Hindu temple. Intricately designed in South Indian style, it has three shrines and is the main place of worship for Kuala Lumpur’s Hindu population.
Also in the vicinity, Central Market http://www.centralmarket.com.my is chock-a-block with stalls selling Malaysian handicrafts, batiks and artwork. Adjacent to the market is an arts center, where you can watch artists at work. Frequent traditional music and dance shows can also be seen at the center.
For dinner, why not try some authentic Malay cuisine? The award-winning Bijan Bar and Restaurant http://www.bijanrestaurant.com is a slick, chic venue, where you can choose from a range of Malaysian food. Vegetarian options are available and it is also one of the few restaurants in the city that serves alcohol. The wine list is impressive.
For those wishing to partake in some Kuala Lumpur nightlife, there is a discreet, but fairly active LGBTQ scene. Check out http://www.utopia-asia.com/tipsmala.htm for events and venues.
The dramatic Batu caves are situated thirty minutes by train from downtown and easy to reach from KL Sentral. The complex consist of four caves. The main cave has 272 steps leading up to it and is guarded by a giant Shiva statue. Monkeys hang out on the steps, waiting for any scraps which pilgrims may throw their way. Colorful shrines are hidden in the nooks and crannies of the caves. At the entrance, restaurants do a roaring trade in vegetable curries, rice and poppadoms served on a banana leaf.
Back in town, The Islamic Arts Museum is a bright modern building, exuding a calm and peaceful aura. There are both permanent and temporary exhibits and Islamic culture worldwide is well-presented. It would be easy to spend a couple of hours appreciating the intricate designs and learning about the art and culture of Islam (Jalan Lembah, Perdana).
Nearby, The National Mosque has a capacity for 15,000 people. The architecture is impressive with soaring minarets and a star-shaped concrete ceiling. A number of reflecting pools and fountains in the grounds are surrounded by lush foliage.
The Lake Gardens are also close to both the museum and mosque, a sprawling area consisting of five different gardens and parks. It’s an oasis in the heart of the city and includes a deer park, a bird park with over 3,000 species as well as butterfly and orchid gardens. Due to the huge size of the area, it rarely becomes too crowded and serves as an escape from the hustle and bustle of the city streets.
Little India of Brickfields, transports the visitor to the sub-continent minus the madness of Mumbai. It’s a vibrant and colorful area and a great place to buy sparkly bangles or even a sari! Restoran Sri Kortumalai (215 Jalan Tun, Sanbanthan, Jalan Brickfields) serves cheap, but mouth-watering South Indian food.
After trekking all over the city, it’s time to chill. Head to Sky Bar for a cocktail or two. Situated on the 33rd floor of Traders Hotel http://www.shangri-la.com/kualalumpur/traders/dining/bars-lounges/sky-bar, the view of the Petronas Towers is spectacular and it’s a perfect way to relax and round off your two-day jaunt to Kuala Lumpur.
Originally posted 2017-09-23 21:04:48.
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