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Top 5 Queer Bucket List Destinations

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Life is short, but bucket lists don’t have to be. If you’re a member of the LGBTQ+ community and are looking for destinations, consider one (or all five) from the list below. Seize the gay.

See the Pride Festival in Sao Paulo, Brazil

No queer bucket list would be complete without mentioning Pride at least once. If you’ve never been to one or just want to go to THE largest Pride festival in the world at least once in your life, then Brazil is where you need to be. Hosted annually In Sao Paulo, attendance at this festival is always measured in the millions (yes, you read that right) and people come from every corner of the world to dance, party, and show their love. This year’s parade wrapped up June 18th, but don’t worry there’s always next June, or the next one, or the next one. Whenever you decide to go, rest assured this Pride festival isn’t going anywhere. It’s so highly successful that I have a feeling it will be around for decades to come, until we no longer need Pride parades at all (maybe one day). Buy that plane ticket now and start planning your wardrobe, so next year you can have the time of your life and cross one more thing off your list.

Go on an Olivia Cruise

Lesbi-honest, cruises are only fun if you’re a small child or old enough to buy booze. But an Olivia cruise is the exception, since it has all the alcohol you need and it’s just for lesbians. Olivia is that company that seems to have a booth at every pride event, advertising for their scenic cruises. And as a lesbian, one of my top fantasies (besides appearing on “Ellen”) is to be surrounded by beautiful queer women on a ship for a week. What could be bad about that? Cruises go pretty much anywhere you can dream of, from majestic Alaska to Italy to the Caribbean, and Olivia cruises charter the entire ship for their trips, so it’ll be just you and more women than you can count. This is one experience even I am dying to try just once.

Visit Paris , France 

Paris isn’t just the city of love. It also happens to be where queer writer James Baldwin made his mark, walking the streets and writing some of his best work, including “Go Tell It On the Mountain.” France is a romantic city, not just for the sites, but for the gay community as well. In a country where public, passionate love is encouraged, Paris is a must-see when travelling. 

The city at night is absolutely gorgeous, and hundreds of people picnic along the banks of the Seine in the evenings, enjoying good food, good company, and a pretty sunset over an even prettier city. I visited for a week two years ago and experienced the city first-hand, and as far as memorable trips go, Paris is at the very top for me. So grab your significant other or your favorite group of queer friends and head over to France for the best time of your life. 

Attend a Drag Show  

Are you a cut-throat drag queen? Wanting to strut your stuff on-stage? Or just looking to watch talented individuals dress their best and perform songs, dance routines, and show off their skills? A drag show might be just the thing for you. Drag shows are one of my favorite things to see because of the excitement and energy that the audience always exudes. They’re warm, fun, loving spaces in my experience, and you’ll never have more fun than when you’re yelling out your vote for your favorite drag queen or crooning along to their performances. 

Drag shows are becoming more and more popular and are common at gay bars. Some universities even hold them, usually hosted by the LGBTQ+ clubs/organizations. So don’t be afraid to ask around if you’re looking for a good time. Drag shows are always a lot of fun and worth attending at least once (if not three times) in your life, just to cross it off your list again and again.

Stop at the Homomonument in Amsterdam , Netherlands

Ending this list on a more serious note is Amsterdam’s “Homomonument” right along one of the city’s canals. This monument features three large triangles meant to commemorate those in the community who have been persecuted/killed for their sexuality. Amsterdam is known for it’s relaxed, drug-friendly vibes, and is also one of the most gay-friendly cities in the world. So if you’re making a stop to see the Van Gogh museum, visit a “coffee shop,” or just tour the canals, you’ll want to take a few extra minutes to remember the trials we’ve gone through in the LGBT community to become what we are today. It’s worth the detour.

 

Originally posted 2017-07-07 17:36:46.


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A 22-year old poet and writer, Summer is the voice for Tell It Like A Lesbian and the features editor for TravelPRIDE. She loves horror movies, rock climbing, and is trying to start an herb garden in her spare time.

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One Step Forward, Two Steps Back: Trump’s Trans Military Ban

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The LGBTQ community has made significant progress in terms of equality. A person was not allowed to be openly gay in the US military until former president Obama repealed the “Don’t ask, don’t tell” policy in September of 2011. Gay men and women are now allowed to be out, proud, and active members of the military. Unfortunately, this is not the case for transgender individuals. On Wednesday, July 26, 2017, president Donald Trump tweeted that transgender people are not allowed to serve in the armed forces “in any capacity.”

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

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How alarming! This is a clear violation of human rights and extremely detrimental to the fight for equality for the LGBTQ community. (We also have to appreciate the irony of the tweets considering that on July 26, 1948, former president Truman desegregated the military).

What Trump is basically saying is that allowing transgender people in the military would be a financial detriment. I’m assuming that he is referring to the cost of hormones for transgender people. What he doesn’t realize that the cost of hormones is significantly less than what the military is paying for medications such as Viagra. According to the United Press International, the US military spends ten times more on erectile dysfunction medication than transgender care. 

So, what does this mean? Well, it may mean any number of things:

  1. Trump has no idea what he’s talking about
  2. He’s pandering to the conservative right
  3. He’s transphobic

Who really knows? Whatever the reason, it is definitely a step back for equality. However, hope is not lost as many people are taking a stand against Trump’s ban. Celebrities such as Lady Gaga had some things to say about this ban.

 

 

 

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Lady Gaga is not the only person fighting against Trump’s un-American ban. The Human Rights Campaign, or HRC, is fighting for the rights of transgender people, saying that the ban is an “all-out assault on service members” and that the ban would affect approximately 15,000 currently serving troops. This will clearly have a negative impact on the US military as it consists of millions of brave men and women who fight for the freedom of the American citizens and losing even one soldier due to bigotry can cause the military to weaken.

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

 

The American Civil Liberties Union, or UCLA, is also fighting against Trump’s ban.

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Don’t give up hope! This ban is definitely a step in the wrong direction and it hopefully won’t spiral into something even more horrible which is why it is very important that we speak out against this hateful action. Voice your outrage anywhere where your voice can be heard and stand with the transgender community during this trying time, use the hashtag #protecttranstroops on Twitter, repeat the maxim “trans people are not a burden,” and fight for what is right. It may not be easy but as long as we fight, the rights of transgender individuals can and will be protected.

 

 

 

 

 

Originally posted 2017-07-28 21:19:21.


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A Brit Queer: Why are people concerned about LGBTQ+ rights in the wake of the UK election?

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Hello and welcome to A Brit Queer, where a queer woman from Britain splits her time between discussing fun stuff like TV shows and events and serious stuff like the political and social issues facing the LGBTQ+ community in Britain.

Some columns will focus on the lighter side of being gay in the UK, like praising medical drama Holby City for tackling two separate storylines dedicated to same-sex couples at the same time because that level of representation was not something I expected.

However, this is not one of those times.

Today, we’re going to talk about the recent UK elections and what that means for the LGBTQ+ community. I know, I know, I’m a little late to the party, but give me a break, Travel Pride only just launched.

So you’ve probably seen some very confusing coverage of our June election (especially if you live outside of the UK) and I’ll try to break it down as quick as possible.

Wtf happened in the UK election?

House of Commons Chamber- UK Parliament via Wikipedia

First, no single party achieved the 326-seat majority needed to form a government, which resulted in a hung parliament (no, not like that).  You need to get 326 seats in the House of Commons (our elected legislative chamber) because that is exactly half the total seats plus one.

The Conservative Party did, however, get the most number of seats in the election (318) and therefore they get to form a government. They can either rule as a minority government and risk the all the other parties banding together to vote their bills down or seek an alliance with another political party.

Trouble is, our last coalition government was not particularly favourable (I mean, it’s referred to as the ConDem coalition) and the Liberal Democrats, who partnered with the Conservatives, have not really recovered.  In 2015, the first election after the coalition, the Lib Dems plummeted from over 50 seats in the HOC to just eight.

So, the Lib Dems haven’t really been champing at the bit to help out this time. Plus, their current (but soon-to-be-replaced) leader Tim Farron faced a lot of deserved criticism for the time he took to say that being gay wasn’t “sinful” and his voting record on LGBTQ+ rights.

Do not adjust your screen, this really is the 21st century.

So the Conservatives are seeking an alliance with is the Democratic Unionist Party from Northern Ireland, who are the only other right-of-centre party to have seats in the HOC.

The trouble is, the DUP have views that are significant to the right of the Conservatives on a few issues, specifically women’s rights to reproductive health, LGBTQ+ rights in general, whether climate change is happening and whether evolution is real.

I’ll give you a minute to stop rolling your eyes.

What does this mean for LGBTQ+ rights?

People are rightly worried about what this means for women’s rights, LGBTQ+ rights, and the environment, especially when you consider that the UK now has to start negotiating Brexit and gets to decide which laws from the EU that we will and will not keep.

Leaving aside, environmental rights and women’s rights for a hot second, many of the UK’s current LGBTQ+ protections are derived from the EU, such as the right not to be fired based on sexual orientation or gender identity, and if the DUP wanted, they could influence the Conservatives to weaken or scrap these laws.

I mean the DUP gained Northern Ireland’s exemption from the UK’s equal marriage ruling of 2013, when no one really wanted anything from them, despite the other political party in Northern Ireland, Sinn Fein, supporting same-sex marriage.

Luckily, as of yet, the DUP have not been given positions of power within the Cabinet. I mean, it was unlikely because Labour would not be able to form a majority, but it still scared me sh*tless on June 9. However, the DUP has just scored £1bn from the Conservatives and it is likely that over the course of the current Parliament, the DUP will want more.

Nigel Dodds MP- Northern Ireland Executive via Flickr

Nigel Dodds, the DUP MP for Belfast North, said, during the first Prime Minister’s Questions of the new Parliament, that the money in his constituency would go towards mental health services in Northern Ireland.

That all sounds fantastic, but you know what? LGB people in the UK are twice as likely as straight people to suffer from depression, have suicidal thoughts, and attempt suicide and the rates are even higher for trans people.

Let’s be clear, there are many contributing factors for depression (and I don’t claim to be an expert) but I think we can all see that any existing depression is exacerbated when your elected official is voting against your f*cking rights and when others in his party are describing you as an “abomination”. Like…I can’t… It’s…Urrgh!

What can you do?

If you live in the UK, please write to your MP (especially if they’re a Tory) and explain why you are concerned about a #MayDUP coalition. Remember to be polite, even if you’re angry because it’s more likely they will take you seriously.

Outside of the UK but still worried about a homophobic, sexist voice in the ear of our Prime Minister? Share this with your British friends and ask them to contact their MP.

Tune in next week for a (hopefully) happier column of A Brit Queer, perhaps something about the 50 Shades of Gay Season on Channel 4.

Originally posted 2017-07-11 20:35:53.

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Stonewall: The real story

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The Stonewall Riots are iconic in the history of LGBTQ+ rights, and as such, it’s highly likely that everyone reading this has at least a passing knowledge of the event. But many portrayals of the riots actually gloss over or outright ignore the contributions of trans people, women, and POC (looking at you, Stonewall)

In order to understand the reasons for the Stonewall Riots, we need to understand what it was like for LGBTQ+ people in the years prior, so let’s take an incredibly short trip through the early 20th century. Fair warning, you’ll probably want to punch the screen.

Basically, identifying as LGBTQ+ was illegal in all but one US state by the time of the Stonewall Riots, and it was also considered a mental illness which could be ‘treated’ with castration, lobotomies, and electroshock therapy. Even WW2 vets who identified as LGBTQ+ didn’t get the respect they deserved, many gay/bi servicemen (particularly MOC) were given blue discharges; which were technically neither honourable or dishonourable but in reality, barred them from receiving the benefits of the GI bill.

So gay men and lesbians set up their own organisations, The Mattachine Society and The Daughters of Bilitis respectively, as social clubs for their local communities but they quickly spread across the country and became hotbeds for LGBTQ+ activism.

Stonewall

The Stonewall Inn was a mafia-run gay bar in New York City, which was raided by police on June 28, 1969, under the pretence of not having a proper alcohol license. However, the police never really needed an excuse to raid gay bars at that time.

During raids, the police would check that people were wearing at least four items of gender-appropriate clothing and if there was any doubt on the person’s gender, police would inspect their genitals (wtf?).

Most LGBTQ+ people would attempt to leave bars during police raids, because at the time, being gay was only legal in one state: Illinois. Being outed would not only result in discrimination, but likely prosecution.

Given that there is no footage of the riot, there are several conflicting eyewitness accounts about who was there and who threw the first brick at the police, but one thing is certain, this night was different.

The patrons refused to hand over their IDs and fought back against police who tried to inspect their genitals. The police reacted violently; groping and beating the patrons. When Storme DeLarverie (a lesbian of color) complained that her handcuffs were too tight, they hit her on the head with a baton and she pleaded with those around to help.

Someone then threw a brick at the police and Marsha P. Johnson (a trans WOC) threw a shot glass. This became known as the shot glass heard round the world.

As news of the riot spread, more people arrived and the police barricaded themselves, along with some patrons, inside the Stonewall Inn.

At the time, the Stonewall Inn was where the most marginalized of the marginalized gathered; people of color, trans people, homeless youth. The patrons at the Stonewall Inn accepted them, gave them a community, a home. The patrons fought for Stonewall because it represented the only thing they had to lose: each other.

Post-Stonewall

In the decades following Stonewall, the LGBTQ+ rights movement became more radical, advocating overthrowing the system rather than trying to exist within it. Basically, if you wanted us to be nice, you should have been nicer to us.

The Gay Liberation Front advocated the overthrow of capitalism, the use of militant tactics to fight oppression, and the right to take pride in their sexuality and allied themselves with other anti-oppression movements like black power and women’s liberation.

While Street Transvestites Action Revolutionaries (STAR), formed by Stonewall rioters Marsha P. Johnson and Sylvia Rivera (a trans-WOC) protested prison conditions, housing and workplace discrimination, discriminatory legal practices and police harassment.

In June 1970, Craig Rodwell organized the first Pride March from Sixth Avenue to the Stonewall Inn. The message was clear: We aren’t going back into the closet.

It wasn’t all plain sailing from here on out for LGBTQ+ rights. While some gains were made, like eventually legalizing love and equal marriage, our community also faced some massive roadblocks from social conservatives and the Religious Right who tried to demonize us at every turn, especially during the AIDS crisis.

In 2015, the Stonewall Inn was designated an NYC landmark for its contribution to LGBTQ+ history; the first landmark to be honored in this way.

The issues faced by the LGBTQ+ community in the USA weren’t fixed overnight and regrettably many are here today but this was a huge moment in our history and we owe more than we can ever imagine to those brave men, women, and non-binary folks who risked their freedom to give us ours. We’ve come a long way, since 1969, but we sure as hell have a long way to go.

The Stonewall Riots occurred was when the lit match of standing up for your rights and the rights of others fell on the oily trash of how governmental institutions treat(ed) LGBTQ+ people, but now it is up to us to keep the flame burning. Who’s with me?

Originally posted 2017-07-09 15:35:41.

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