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Most Colorful and Largest Australian LGBTQ Demonstration Will be Followed by Equal Rights Survey



Australia, or the country that is fondly called ‘Down Under,’ is a major tourist destination because of a number of exciting attractions, which include the Sydney Opera House, the Great Barrier Reef, desert wilderness and national parks in an area called the ‘Outback,’ the Sydney Harbor Bridge, and rare animals like kangaroos.   

A Big Turnout to Promote Equal Rights

People attend a rally for marriage equality of same-sex couples in Sydney, Australia.. REUTERS/Jason Reed

Another attraction is that recently, the struggle for equal rights for all has ensued, with positive results. The city of Sydney was the host of a rally that promoted same-sex marriage, and the turnout was the biggest ever in the country’s history. 20, 000 people came, clothed in a rainbow of colors, and they called for equal rights for everyone.

“We’re blown away by the response. The force we’ve shown today puts us in good stead to win this battle over the next couple of months,” said Cat Rose from the Community Action Against Homophobia.

The Australian High Court’s Decision

A couple attends a rally for marriage equality of same-sex couples in Sydney, Australia. REUTERS/Jason Reed

One month earlier, an equal rights event in Melbourne produced a large turnout of 15, 000 people, and as word and support for the cause spread, a month later, the Sydney event produced an even higher turnout. They were supported by the Opposition Leader, Bill Shorten, who said that “many people will vote ‘yes,’ as I will, because they believe the right to marry is a conservative ideal as much as any other principle.”

Because of the Australian High Court’s decision to allow the federal government to process a postal plebiscite on the issue of same-sex marriage, the opportunity to hold such a rally was handed to the public.

However, former Prime Minister John Howard, launched a ‘No’ campaign. “I believe there is a conflict here between those seeking the right for same-sex marriage and the rights of the child, and I believe the right of the child to have a mother and father should be preserved,” he said.

How To Take Action

Ballots were mailed out on September 12, and the non-binding survey asks: “Should the law be changed to allow same-sex couples to marry?” Because of the large public turnout for equal rights, several could be planning to fill out the survey.

The Equality Campaign’s ‘Plan Your YES Vote’ asks potential voters to fill out their information and nearest postbox location on the site, and then they will get a reminder about when and where to post their ballots. Additionally, activists can also get involved in calling events by signing up for calling up and having productive conversations with Yes voters.

On November 15, the survey results will be announced. While the survey is non-binding, if its results show a desire for same-sex marriage, a policy change might come about.

Is It Currently Safe to Travel to Australia?

Sydney Harbor Bridge

It absolutely is safe to travel to the country. Its political system is stable, and the progress of equal rights means a better experience for all. Australia has a low crime rate, when compared to the rest of the world. However, if you are planning a visit, there are some safety issues to consider.

Australia is a very hot country, and sunscreen can protect you from the sun’s glare. Always wear a hat, sunglasses, and SPF 30+ sunscreen, and put the sunscreen on regularly. Drink plenty of fluids and water to avoid thirst and dehydration.

If you are bushwalking and hiking, avoid snake and spider bites by wearing appropriate footwear. Put insect repellent on your boots, bare feet and legs up to your knees, exposed skin, wrists and neck. If you have been bitten, seek immediate medical attention.

When traveling near crocodile habitats, carefully observe safety signs. Do not swim in rivers, estuaries, tidal rivers, deep pools, or mangrove shores. If you plan to go camping, fishing, boating or swimming, seek expert advice about conditions and safety precautions.

If you are planning an outback journey, make sure your vehicle has two spare tires and a very reliable GPS. Bring maps, extra food, plenty of water and fuel. Make sure road conditions are right before your trip, and tell a third party of your expected arrival date. Cell phones have limited coverage in these areas, so check with your provider and know where you will get coverage. Be safe, and have fun!

Originally posted 2017-09-20 11:48:22.

Hello, my name is Shipra and I am a writer who likes to explore travel, social justice and other issues. After college I began my journey is Australia where I worked for campaigns and sales, and then went on to travel in other places. Currently I live in New Jersey with my two dogs, Guster and Tip.


Introducing PrideLight: Our Spotlight on Theatre and Entertainment



This week at TravelPride, we introduce PrideLight, your guide to recommended best bets in entertainment. Fall is a popular time for theatre companies to schedule season openings, so there’s a lot going on in almost every town across America, too much to cover in one pithy column. But this seems a fitting time to focus on some of the cities where foliage tours and the waning last days of outdoor amusement might take you hiking, biking, and exploring in the less urban centers. For example, Asheville and Richmond might not make the cut every week. While larger markets like San Francisco and leading LGBTQ-specific theatres will receive more consistent coverage, I’ll seek to guide you off the beaten path to seek out the best of regional and community theatre events that might not pique your curiosity at first glance.

The goal is exploration, after all.

Asheville, North Carolina

What: Carry On written and performed by Murphy Funkhouser Capps
Where: Asheville Community Theatre
When: September 29-October 1

Playwright Murphy Funkhouser Capps (great name, right?) expands on her award-winning one-act play with a new act and a fresh title. In 2007, Murphy Funkhouser Capps quit her job and hit the road with 500 pounds of luggage hooked to the back of her Subaru to take her one-act Crazy Bag on the road. The autobiographical one woman show about her journey from minister’s daughter to rebellion to redemption premiered at Colorado Theatre Festival and won numerous awards, including one recognizing Capps for her acting chops in the Festival performance and a nomination for Best Solo Performance of 2008 by the Denver Post.

Crazy Bag went on to rave reviews in Breckenridge, Aspen, Denver, Albuquerque, and Oklahoma City and was accepted into the 2008 San Francisco Fringe Festival. The journey brought her back to Asheville where her story began two decades before. Do not be repelled by the “community theatre” stigma that can sometimes haunt the small-town playhouses of middle America. This performance is a must see for those who love to discover that unexpected gem, and support original work by talented artists. The performance is one weekend only, and tickets are available at and range in price up to $50. The company website provides detailed travel and parking directions and advertises free parking after 6 pm.

What: Listen to This hosted by Tom Chalmers
Where: Asheville Community Theatre
When: October 26, November 30
What to do? You just missed Carry On at Asheville Community Theatre. If it’s a Thursday, head to the theatre for the 7:30 performance of Listen to This staged in ACT’s intimate black box space 35below every Thursday. Quickly becoming Asheville’s most popular series, actor/comedian Tom Chalmers hosts this collection of stories and songs from Asheville’s most interesting writers and performers, a fresh theme and new performers each week bring to mind a good old fashioned southern potluck. Fair warning: the show could be hit or miss depending on the featured artists chosen, but for an admission price of only $15, I’d say it’s worth the risk. The company encourages you to enjoy refreshments in the theatre but also cautions that seating is limited and punctuality a must, both for parking availability and choice seating (even for those with tickets in hand). Purchase tickets in advance at Arrive and park earlier in the day and check out the Tom Wolfe Memorial, downtown shops, and other sites of the quaint downtown area.

Atlanta, GA

What: Atlanta Black Theatre Festival
Where: West End Performing Arts Center
When: October 4-7

A diverse lineup of artists drawn from around the globe to around the corner. The Atlanta Black Theatre Festival is “40 plays in 4 days,” hardly enough time to preserve and share the stories of the African diaspora. But whether you’re a lover of Tyler Perry, August Wilson, or world-class Black Art, the amazing shows and international vendors’ market will make this popular fall festival one of your favorite things to do in Atlanta. Don’t just pick a play; pick a DAY (or all four) and immerse yourself in a marathon of bold, exciting theatre. Produced by Micah 6:8 Media “a professional management company.”

Boston, MA

What: Faceless by Selina Fillinger
Where: Zeitgeist Stage Company at Boston Center for the Arts
When: NOW PLAYING through October 7
With especially positive reviews in The Boston Globe, Boston Phoenix, Broadway World, and Boston Arts Review for its solid performers and the visual impact of its set designs, founder and artistic director David Miller has lead this smaller fringe company in exploring contemporary plays and rediscovering historic works for 17 seasons. In Faceless, eighteen-year-old Susie Glenn is on trial for conspiring to commit acts of terrorism, and recent Harvard Law grad and practicing Muslim, Claire Fathi, has been brought on to prosecute. Though pitted against one another in the courtroom, these two young women are fighting a similar battle to defend their morals, motives and religious freedoms in this riveting and timely new drama. An explosion of identity politics, questions of faith, and a face-off between two seemingly diametrically-opposed women drives this compelling narrative.
Faceless is presented at the Plaza Black Box Theatre at the Boston Center for the Arts. Purchase tickets and peruse other upcoming Boston productions at Tickets for Faceless are reasonably priced at $20. Count on having an intimate theatre experience in the 90-seat black box, expect thought-provoking subject matter, and enjoy excellent performances from the play’s two strong female leads.
What: Wicked Queer
Where: Boston Museum of Fine Art
When: Ongoing
While in Boston, also check in with Wicked Queer: the Boston LGBT Film Festival housed in the Museum of Fine Art, Boston. The group sponsors ongoing events and film screenings. Check the user-friendly calendar prior to your trip at for titles and showtimes.

Boulder, CO

What: The Revolutionists by Lauren Gunderson
Where: Boulder Ensemble Theatre Company at Dairy Arts Center
When: NOW PLAYING through October 8

You may think you know Marie Antoinette. You don’t. You may believe you can outsmart Charlotte Corday. You can’t. You may have never heard of Olympe de Gouges. You will. In this irreverent, girl-powered comedy, these women live, die, and dare boldly in revolutionary Paris.
Producing Artistic Director Stephen Weitz shared his thoughts about the programming for this season “…as things were unfolding over the last eight to 10 months, we had some internal conversations about who we wanted to be in this climate.” This season, the company has assembled the most diverse ensemble in the company’s history. For the season debut of The Revolutionists, for example, BETC assembled an all-female production staff to complement the show’s all-female cast, and a majority of the plays in their 6-show lineup are written by women or persons of color. Tickets range from $20-$45 (most tickets priced at $36.50). The $45 ticket on opening night September 16 includes admission to the post-show reception. Purchase tickets at and investigate more about BETC at

Chicago, IL

What: A Perfect Arrangement
Where: Pride Films and Plays at Pride Arts Center
When: NOW PLAYING-October 22

In Topher Payne’s comedy A Perfect Arrangement, it’s 1950, and new colors are being added to the Red Scare. Two U.S. State Department employees, Bob and Norma, have been tasked with identifying sexual deviants within their ranks. There’s just one problem: Both Bob and Norma are gay, and have married each other’s partners and moved next door to each other as a carefully constructed cover. Set amidst the earliest stirrings of the American gay rights movement, madcap classic sitcom-style laughs give way to provocative drama as two “All-American” couples are forced to stare down the closet door.
This relatively new theatre company in the Chicago theatre scene is housed at Pride Arts Center. Pride Films and Plays, seeks to bring theatre to the Chicago area that is “essential viewing” for all audiences. The Huffington Post has called this, “A powerful and empowering entity.” Tickets are on sale now
What: The CiviliTy of Albert Cashier, music & lyrics by Joe Stevens and Keaton Wooden, book by GLAAD Award nominated writer/producer Jay Paul Deratany
Where: Stage 773 (Permoveo Productions)
When: NOW PLAYING through October 15
This new musical, set between 1862 and 1915, tells the astonishing, “timely, essential, insightful” and true story of “an amazing figure from [our]history” -The Windy City Times. In The CiviliTy of Albert Cashier, Albert Cashier is a Civil War soldier with a secret that resonates with today’s modern world. Detailing the soldier’s life fighting in more than 40 engagements during the Civil War, the musical follows Cashier through retirement and the onset of dementia, when a life-long secret was discovered: That Albert was born Jennifer Hodgers. Causing an uproar in the small southern Illinois community where Cashier lived, Cashier was prosecuted for impersonating a soldier, requiring fellow soldiers to return once again after 60 years to detail Albert’s heroism and life.
Stage 773 acts to embody the vibrant spirit of Chicago off-loop theater. The group strives to present excellent and affordable theatre and provide a foster home for emerging artists and creative groups. The theatre hosts various companies and acts throughout the year. See Bullets over Broadway or choose from a list of other current shows now playing. Tickets for The CiviliTy of Albert Cashier are $40. Visit or

Dallas, TX

What: In the Tall Grass written and directed by Paul Kalburgi
Where: TeCo Theatrical Productions at Bishop Arts Center
When: NOW PLAYING through September 24
In the Tall Grass, produced in association with Transgender Education Network of Texas, follows the harrowing true story of the murder of Shade Schuler, a 22-year-old Dallas transgender woman. The community is left asking “why” and fearing who could be next. Told through the first-hand testimonies of trans women of color in Dallas, the world premiere of In the Tall Grass explores the circumstances which force many to exist in the underworld – ignored by society, cut off from support and legal systems.
TeCo Theatrical productions, an award-winning multi-cultural “oasis for the next generation” of artists, was founded in 1993. The company offers a full season of theatrical performances, jazz concerts, a speaker series, and year-round arts education programs. Tickets range in price from $12-$25 and can be purchased online at
What: Hair: the American Tribal Love Rock Musical
Book and Lyrics by Gerome Ragni & James Rado
Music by Galt Macdermont Directed by Kevin Moriarty
Where: Dallas Theatre Center
When: September 22-October 22

Dallas Theatre Center is aptly named as it is truly the center of the Dallas Theatre Scene with a long-standing record of excellent professional entertainment. They just won a Regional Tony Award in case you missed it. If you’re a resident or frequent visitor, you already know about them. Granted, their offerings are a little more commercial, a little more mainstream, but this production is somewhat of a diversion for them and really caught my eye. People in red states are just dying to rip their clothes off, apparently. I was about to scroll on by until I saw this:

WARNING: This production will include Hippies cursing, smoking pot, getting naked, mocking societal conventions, meditating, taking LSD, flaunting their sexuality, celebrating their race, creating a happening, singing and dancing. Also, there will be audience participation. Consider yourself warned, and come to the Be-In.

Ok, so if you haven’t already seen Hair, besides just assigning you a failing grade in Musical Theatre class, I’m going to push you through the doors to see this production. Find tickets and more at (TravelPride is not responsible for any STDs you acquire during this performance.)

New York, NY

What: Fearless: Art in the Face of Adversity
A series of performances by LGBTQ artists
Where: The Clemente Soto Velez Cultural & Educational Center
When: Ongoing throughout 2017-18, Next event opens September 29

Artists at The Clemente created this series of works in direct response to the tragedy in Orlando and continuing attacks against the LGBTQ community. Connected by the theme of understanding and unity, these events are spread throughout The Clemente’s 2017-18 season. See Tjasa Ferme’s “The Female Role Model Project,” directed by Ana Marginaunu September 29-October 1. The artists describe it as a “scientifically enhanced multimedia-devised theatre piece built by an ensemble of female-identified artists about recreating modern female role models in the world of cataclysmic climate change, cataclysmic political change, and possibility of reprogramming our brains.” Check for other titles coming up in this exciting series. Admission is $15 per performance.
Since 1993 The Clemente has focused on “cultivation, presentation, and preservation” of Puerto Rican and Latino culture. Equally “determined to operate in a multi-cultural and inclusive manner,” the organization promotes artists and performance events that “fully reflect the cultural diversity of the Lower East Side and the city as a whole.”

What: Torch Song by Harvey Fierstein, Directed by Moises Kaufman
Where: Second Stage Theater at Tony Kiser Theater
When: Opens September 26

Torch Song takes place in 1979 in New York City. Arnold Beckoff is on a quest for love, purpose and family. He’s fierce in drag and fearless in crisis, and he won’t stop until he achieves the life he desires. Now, Arnold is back… And he’s here to sing you a torch song. The Tony Award-winning play that forever changed the trajectory of Broadway returns for a new generation.
Second Stage Theater produces an adventurous range of premieres, musicals, bold new interpretations of contemporary plays, and unique theatrical experiences from America’s most dynamic writers of the 21st century. Through the discovery of emerging talent, the commissioning of new work, and the creation of a training base for directors, Second Stage reflects the diverse city and the world we live in today and reaches an ever-growing audience through its Broadway runs, national tours and regional productions.
Torch Song runs 2 hours and 20 minutes including intermission. Ticket are limited and prices vary, so we recommend contacting the Box Office at 212-246-4422. The theater also offers student access tickets one hour prior to curtain to full time students and $30 under 30 tickets will be available in advance for patrons under 30 and for limited performances before October 19. (Valid ID required.) Find out more at
What: {my lingerie play} 2017: The Concert and Call to Arms. Story, Music, and Lyrics by Diana Oh
Where: Rattlestick Playwright’s Theatre
When: September 27-October 28

What drives an artist to stand in her black corset in Times Square on a soapbox? It began for Diana Oh at 17 with her first shoplifted f*ck me bra. Over the course of this unfiltered and soul-baring, performance art event, Diana Oh’s personal collection of unmentionables comes on and off as she and her band ignite the audience to create a saner, safer, more courageous world for us all.
World premiere {my lingerie play} is a play, a protest, a concert, and an installation all at once. Through this concert-play, Diana and her band explore mainstream culture’s relationship to the body and the deep and complex dynamics that exist regarding sex and gender politics. This culminates in a genre-bending soulful rock and R&B concert-play and final installation of {my lingerie play} 2017: 10 underground performance installations in lingerie (as supported by the Venturous Theater Fund of Tides Foundation for 2017) staged in an effort to provide a saner, safer, more courageous world for women, trans, queer, and non-binary humans to live in. Tickets range from $10-$30 (preview performances) and $40 general admission after October 13. Rattlestick is on the cutting edge of art and theatre. Explore to purchase tickets and find out more.

 Portland, OR

What: Hand of God by Robert Askins
Where: Triangle Productions (The Sanctuary at Sandy Plaza)
When: NOW PLAYING through September 30
Nominated for 5 Tony Awards including Best Play for its Broadway production, Hand of God is a must see. If you missed this dark comedy in New York, don’t worry. Regional theatres across the country are jumping at the chance to produce it. The plot follows Jason who finds an outlet for his anxiety through the Christian puppet ministry in a conservative town in Texas, but when his puppet Tyrone takes on a shocking and dangerously irreverent personality of his own, Jason’s life is thrown into upheaval. Based on Triangle’s 27-year history and consistently positive reviews, expect a solid production of Hand of God in Portland. Presented in The Sanctuary at Sandy Plaza, Hand of God couldn’t be a better choice for this company that produces “rich stories told through diverse perspectives, particularly the gay perspective.” Audience members sit in church pews! A full bar and bistro with a limited dine in menu opens an hour and a half before show times and stays open after the show. The company’s website offers other nearby dining recommendations that range from Asian to American BBQ. There are two free parking lots and free parking on the street close to the theatre, a rare find in Portland. Tickets are still available from $15-$35 (no handling charge) and can be purchased online through the company website

Richmond, VA

What: Cloud 9 by Caryl Churchill
Where: Richmond Triangle Players
When: September 27-October 3
Hailed as the best professional theatre in Richmond of any style or stripe, Richmond Triangle Players is taking a big bite out of the queer theatre anthology in its 25th season. If you took a modern theatre class in college, you’re probably already familiar with at least one play by the illusive, reclusive playwright Caryl Churchill who is known for evading questions about her plays preferring that each audience member decide for themselves what “it” (fill in the blank) means. Graduate students could write tomes on any one of her plays. Cloud 9, the surreal, gender-bending, ethnic cross-casting comment on feminism, colonialism, and gender identity was decades ahead of its time when it first premiered in the 80s, but the show still feels futuristic to today’s audiences. This theatre fare is less for those seeking a delightful theatrical diversion, but more for those who love provocation, to think and to discuss long after the final curtain goes down. Look to be challenged, enlightened, dumbfounded, and entranced. You’ll wake up the next morning still thinking about the ins and outs of this one. Look for a feature column on this exciting company in TravelPride next week. RTP’s 25th season is well-chosen, thought-provoking, joyous, and balanced with a little something for everyone (everyone except Granny Kate, that is). Go to for more information and to purchase tickets in advance.

San Diego, CA

What: Homos, OR Everyone in America by Jordan Seavey
Where: Diversionary Theatre
When: NOW IN PREVIEWS, open September 23-October 15
Founded in 1986, Diversionary Theatre provides quality theatre for the LGBT community with a vision for amplifying the next generation of LGBT voices. By exploring stories of what sets our culture and history apart, as well as stories that focus on LGBT people’s humanity rather than their sexuality, Diversionary bridges the gaps of cultural understanding. Homos, Or Everyone in America a new play by Jordan Seavey follows a Brooklyn couple attempting to navigate the complexities of contemporary gay life together. Hopscotching back and forth over the timeline of their relationship, a sensual, hilarious and compelling story of their bond emerges. This brave, new play confronts the lingering dangers and interconnected values of our nation, and the way our future may be found through our past. Previews began September 15 with a September 23 opening. Look for a feature on this ground-breaking company, the 3rd oldest continuously producing LGBT theatre in the United States. Diversionary’s decades-long track record of collaboration and new work development has solidified the company’s status as a leading queer theatre- a must see if you’re in the San Diego area.

San Francisco, CA

What: The Legend of Pink by Kheven LaGrone
Where: Theatre Rhinoceros at the Gateway Theatre
When: NOW PLAYING through September 30
GLAAD Media Award Winner Theatre Rhinoceros now in its 40th season and the longest running queer theatre in the world presents the world premiere of a new play The Legend of Pink, a local story set in West Oakland. The time is the late Twentieth Century. Drug wars rage and the lovely African American transgender woman, Pink, does her best to bring a bit of beauty to the harsh environment. But people are watching Pink as she tries to form a connection with a beautiful young man, and they don’t like it.
All shows produced at the Gateway Theatre (formerly Eureka Theatre). Tickets are $20-$40. Call the 24-hour box office hotline at 1-800-838-3006 or link to Brown Paper Tickets. If you miss The Legend of Pink, find information about future shows at this leading queer theatre company at
What: Dash Improv: An hour of free-form comedy chaos
Where: Un-scripted Theater Company
When: Saturdays at 10 pm
If you don’t get your act together in time to catch The Legend of Pink at the Rhinocerous, drop by Un-Scripted Theater Company Saturdays at 10 PM and enjoy all the fast, funny, fearless hilarity the company can jam into an hour for an admission price of only $10. The fact that this show is offered weekly is testament to the company’s depth of talent and audience demand. Un-Scripted bills the weekly show as “a seamless, spontaneous, and continuously morphing spectacle of excitement and laughs.”

Seattle, WA

What: Next Fall by Geoffrey Nauffts
Where: Fantastic.Z
When: September 29-October 14
Named last year by Playbill as one of “15 Regional Theatre Companies Leading the Charge in Gay Theatre,” may I introduce Fantastic.Z. An artist founded and run company presenting quality theatre focused through a queer lense, Fantastic.Z’s presence in the national queer theatre scene has been growing in recent years. With a commitment to producing new plays in the Puget Sound area, the company produces an annual New Works Festival of 10-minute plays and also seeks out new full-length plays to be considered for its mainstage season. Upcoming production Next Fall takes a witty and provocative look at faith, commitment, and unconditional love. This timely and compelling new play forces us all to examine what it means to “believe” and what it might cost us. Tickets available
When you see any of the shows on our list, please share your thoughts about the experience and the welcome you received. Did we get it right or miss the mark? Do you have a favorite theatre company or performing arts group in your area? Tell us about them!

Originally posted 2017-09-19 14:35:02.

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Fictional LGBTQ Characters That Would Make Great Travel Buds



If you’re anything like me, you’re a MAJOR pop culture junkie, reading and watching anything you can get your hands on.It’s like taking a trip without spending a ton of cash, or dealing with actual humans. I spend a lot of time living in a fictional world, because let’s face it, reality is pretty lame (I mean, we don’t even get superpowers). We go on adventures with characters all time through the power of books, movies, and TV, but what would it be like to go on a road trip with your favorite fictional character? I’ve logged countless hours (insomnia for the win!) into coming up with the best LGBTQ characters that are #travelsquadgoals.


The Crystal Gems (Steven Universe)

*Singing voice* We…are the Crystal GEMS! Okay, serious we cannot go anywhere without our lesbian rock space moms, taking care of us and keeping us out of trouble and taking us to awesome places throughout the universe. Also making sure we have plenty of Cookie Cat ice cream sandwiches is a MAJOR plus for this #squad. Plus, since they don’t sleep, they continue driving for hours, and can teleport us to places or chill in Beach City. Low-key already coming up with my gem name.

Diana (Wonder Woman)

Wonder Woman is now canonically bisexual (throws confetti) and as awesome as ever.  She would be the perfect travel partner, I mean she has an invisible jet! How cool is that? She could also destroy men who try to catcall us, making her the best person to go clubbing with. With the lasso of truth, she can find us the best prices on hotels, and the best and cheapest restaurants to go to. Win!

Todd Chavez (Bojack Horseman)

Oh Todd, my little asexual cinnamon roll, so sweet, so pure. Todd is the perfect person to bring on the trip. He has the most positive attitude and sunny disposition that makes even the frustrating part of travel seem brighter, and makes us feel better when things go wrong. Todd is also super creative, coming up with Cabracadabra which is genuine and should be real. Also, who wouldn’t want to ride around with Todd on the Drone Throne eating kettle corn? Sounds like the perfect day to me.

Kurt Hummel (Glee)

How can we not bring Kurt on our trip? He’s the one who’s going to make sure that we’ll all wearing our colored coordinated outfits and make sure we have several outfits to wear for different occasions. Who else will come up with the perfect road trip playlist from all the best musicals? Can you imagine how fun carpool karaoke is going to be? Sure he might have a couple diva moments and bring far too much luggage, but at the end of the day he’ll bring a lot of laughs, and that’s what’s important in a traveling pal.

Nina Zenik (Six of Crows)   

Okay if ya’ll haven’t read Six of Crows do so now, I’ll wait. If you have, you know that Nina Zenik is a complete BAMF and I personally will travel to the ends of the Earth with and for her. She’s a Heartrender which makes her perfect for healing people if an emergency happens, or making us fall asleep easier when we’ve had a long day. She’s loud, bold and hilarious and always up for something new. She’s skilled in dozens of languages so she’s the perfect tour guide, and charming to boot.  Plus, she probably knows the best places to get waffles, which is a major plus in my book.

Sailor Neptune (Sailor Moon Manga)

If you’re not familiar with the history of Sailor Neptune and the history of her relationship with Sailor Uranus, click Here to learn all about it. Anyway, any good adventure needs a Sailor Scout to help defend the world with and Sailor Neptune totally fits the bill. Not only is she a kick-butt warrior, she is also very intelligent and cultured. She would know all the best art galleries, classical music concerts, or just the best beaches to swim out. Elegant and classy, she can give you a taste of high-class travel in between saving the day.

Who are some of your #travelsquadgoals?


Originally posted 2017-09-19 14:30:25.

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Tell It Like A Lesbian



Dear Tell It, I have only ever lived in the U.S. I just accepted a position with an international company that will require me to move to a non-English speaking country. I speak three languages so the language won’t be a problem, but what I’m most nervous about is the dating game. I try to be aware of LGBT people’s pronouns when I meet them, but how do I know how to ask someone politely how they identify? What if this country doesn’t have a gender-neutral pronoun that I can use for myself? –Nervous in New York

Dear Nervous, Not knowing to which country you’ll be relocating, I can’t say whether there is a specific etiquette for that conversation. For your own pronouns, I would bet that even if there isn’t an equivalent form of “they/them,” the language will have an alternative to suit your identity’s needs. The best that you can do from the start is research the gender climate of that country as thoroughly as possible, and keep in mind that as long as you ask politely and with an open mind to learning the country’s customs, there is likely not a specifically “right” way of doing it.


Dear Lesbian, I’ve been married to my wife for 2 years. Before that, she was married to a man for 5 years, and they divorced once she realized she was attracted to women. The divorce was largely amicable, although they didn’t keep in contact much the first year after it was finalized. Lately, though, her ex-husband has been coming around for dinner and drinks and while I want to respect my wife’s wishes and welcome him, he often makes lesbian jokes that make me visibly uncomfortable. I know that he sees my discomfort but continues to make jokes whenever my wife leaves the room. What should I do? –Uncomfortable

Dear Uncomfortable, It sounds to me like this ex-husband is feeling some resentment towards your relationship with your wife. If you haven’t already, tell him firmly that his jokes can’t continue if he wishes to remain welcome in your home. If that doesn’t work, your wife should be made aware of how he’s been behaving behind her back, and allow her to handle the situation. The divorce may have been amicable, but his behavior indicates a new issue between the two of them.


Originally posted 2017-09-19 11:56:37.

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