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Never have promises meant so much than when coming from a politician. New York City held its primary elections for local government positions such as District Attorney and Mayor on Tuesday, September 12. Five candidates ran for the Democratic spot on the ballot for mayor for the upcoming general elections in November, and the incumbent, Bill De Blasio, won. Before voting, I researched each candidate so I could make an informed decision, and one person stood out to me: Robert Gangi. I was hopeful that he would stand a chance in the elections, especially after seeing that De Blasio’s ratings as of July 31, 2017 were less than stellar: 50 – 42%. Sadly, my hope was not enough to make Gangi a real contender, with him receiving only 3.1% of the vote.

They Talk the Talk…

From computers to groceries to politicians, when comparing and contrasting, one always looks for what makes each option different or special. When discussing issues that Gangi planned to tackle when elected mayor, there were two mentioned that De Blasio didn’t address:

  1. Ending state and private citizen violence against the LGBTQ community, especially police brutality and private citizen violence against transgender women of color.
  2. Ending discrimination in the workplace against LGBTQI New Yorkers, especially LGBTQ New Yorkers of color.

Both candidates touched on the following topics:

  1. LGBTQ youth homelessness
  2. LGBTQ health care
  3. Third gender option for NYCID

What stood out to me regarding Gangi’s promises were that they expressed his understanding of intersectionality.

Intersectionality: The Ultimate Venn Diagram

Intersectionality is not only a mouthful, but also a concept that is eye opening, and ubiquitous. Merriam-Webster defines intersectionality as

the complex, cumulative manner in which the effects of different forms of discrimination combine, overlap, or intersect.”

Gangi showed that he comprehends this notion when he mentioned police brutality, private citizen violence, people of color, transgender women of color, homelessness and the prison system all under the LGBTQ heading.

These challenges are not single-sided, simple, or straightforward.

They are interconnected and overlapping, presenting the ultimate venn diagram. To address one issue without mentioning at least 2 or 3 others is not only ignorant, but also irresponsible. As an elected civil servant, one must be able to see all of the different layers that make up social issues. Not only is it validating, but also the most productive and efficient way to create and implement solutions. For example, when discussing police brutality, if trans women of color aren’t mentioned, then the whole issue isn’t being seen. Topics like police brutality are overwhelming. Intersectionality brings awareness to how there is not one cookie cutter solution to this, or most problems. All of us are more than just our gender, or our race, or our age. We are complex and intricate beings, and it is insulting to assume otherwise.

What’s the Plan, Stan?

Promises are meaningless unless they are backed up by action. Another thing I greatly appreciated about Gangi was how he laid out a plan for how he would accomplish each promise for each issue he addressed.

  • End violence against LGBTQI New Yorkers through:
    • Decriminalizing sex work
    • Promoting programs which provide housing rather than simply shelters
    • Develop social service centers that offer medical and psycho-social assistance
    • Create an “Office for LGBTQI Support” to provide funding and resources, and promote educational awareness
    • End “Broken Window” policing, and divert significant portions of the NYPD’s budget to social services

De Blasio didn’t present any plans or specifics of what he would do if re-elected. Instead, he focused on what he accomplished during his past term as Mayor.

…But Do They Walk the Walk?

The following is a timeline of what De Blasio has accomplished since he was elected in 2013.

  1. December 2015 #PlaySure KitThis is an amazing program. Pep, Prep, HIV meds, lube and condoms distributed for free.
  2. February 2017 Marsha’s House – A homeless shelter for LGBTQ youth.
  3. June 2017 Summer Jobs – The number of summer jobs for New Yorkers between the ages of 14 and 24 with current or past involvement in the shelter, justice, or foster care systems was tripled. While this isn’t specifically aimed at LGBTQ youth, it is an example of an intersectional program.
  4. June 2017 “Bare It All” Campaign – This campaign encourages LGBTQ patients to find a doctor that adheres to the LGBTQ bill of rights. While I agree that being transparent and open with one’s medical team is very important, outing oneself can be a very dangerous thing to do. I don’t think that perspective and fact is considered in this campaign.
  5. June 2017 LGBTQ Health Care Bill of Rights – A list of 10 requirements regarding treating LGBTQ patients that must be met by any healthcare provider. I find this list frustrating. Making a list of rights of how LGBTQ patients should be treated is very nice, but where is the follow through? How will this be enforced? A lot of responsibility rests on the patient. The local government expects them to file a complaint/report when they are mistreated. When I have been in similar unpleasant situations, I often don’t file reports. I want to leave the environment as soon as possible, and never return or revisit the issue. To file a report would only extend the ordeal, and there is a large chance my complaint won’t be taken seriously. This isn’t meant to discourage you from reporting malpractice; these are just my experiences in handling unprofessional healthcare personnel.
  6. Unknown Gender Identity Confirming BathroomsAll public employees and visitors to public buildings have access to City single-sex facilities consistent with their gender identity.

What Now?

Just because the primary elections are over, doesn’t mean that changes can’t be made. Calling leaders of your local government and voicing your opinion may seem like a small thing, but it has a greater impact than you might think. YOU have a voice, and it’s our job as Americans to take action in making this country the best it can be.

Unhappy with the candidates currently running for local office? Get involved!! Join a committee, speak at town hall meetings, or run for office yourself! Now is not the time to be apathetic.

“Be the change you wish to see in the world.” – Gandhi

Originally posted 2017-09-23 20:54:40.


Also published on Medium.

Sara Whittington is a genderqueer artist raised in Central Louisiana, but currently residing in Brooklyn, NY. They have had the good fortune to be able to travel across the country, as well as abroad. Some of their favorite trips thus far have been adventuring across Iceland, spending summers on Lake Michigan, and a family celebration in Mundesley, England. In their spare time, Sara enjoys writing letters to loved ones.

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The Coward: A Look into Homophobia in Queer Spaces

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Theatre has always been a safe space for the LGBT+ community. It has given people of any sexuality and gender identity a platform to explore themselves and their relationships, as well as their fears and trauma, and share those experiences with everyone. LGBT+ theatre shows the truth, but sometimes it’s a hard truth, meant to make audiences uncomfortable but aware of the hardships that the queer community faces.

In her play The Coward, playwright Kati Schwartz explores the effects of homophobia in the queer community. The show focuses on a young actress named Jill, who spends the summer at an isolated summer stock theater company with a small group of actors. This group includes a man named Christopher, who claims to be straight despite his obvious attraction to a male castmate. His homophobia, fueled by his strong religious beliefs, clashes constantly against Jill’s questioning of her own sexuality, leading to a tension-filled show.

Schwartz is incredible at mixing realism and fantasy in her shows, and The Coward is no exception. Jill carries a wand and casts spells throughout the play, though it is unclear whether her castmates can see the spells’ effects or not. However, the plot of the show itself is very much based in reality.

The Coward, as with most of the plays I write, is based off a real life experience,” said Schwartz. “What you see is my interpretation of that experience with some witchcraft and magical realism sprinkled in.” Schwartz is adept at mixing fantasy and reality while still keeping the focus on such a heavy subject matter. She is able to transform her experience with an aggressive person into a story that balances the inherent tension and sadness with the surreal.

Schwartz attempts to figure out Christopher’s homophobia in the face of his own sexuality along with Jill and the audience, and it certainly is not always easy.

“In the first draft, the Christopher character was a female, and the story was much simpler,” said Schwartz. “Once I switched that character to a closeted, self loathing gay man, the themes of the play became a little more challenging for me to explore.” With this switch, Schwartz dove into an exploration of internal homophobia within the LGBTQ+ community and its effects.

“The resulting changes to the script offer more equality between Jill and Christopher, and more opportunity for discussion on who the true coward is,” said Schwartz.   

Though the focus of the show is on issues within the LGBT+ community, Schwartz knows that this show is important for people of any sexuality to see and understand.

“Rifts and prejudice exist within any community,” said Schwartz. “Something I hope that people of any sexual orientation can take away is a keener sense of one’s responsibility to speak up when someone is being mistreated regardless of the immediate social ramifications.”

The Coward is playing at the Duke on 42nd Street on October 9th in New York City, as part of the New York New Works Festival. It is an important piece of theater, that should be seen by many. Share this with the theater lover in your life, and be on the lookout for more from Schwartz soon.

Originally posted 2017-10-10 15:42:41.

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How to Travel to This Gorgeous Liberal European Town With No Roads

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This town is called the land of water, and is also known as the venice of Holland. It is Giethoorn, located in the National Park Weerribben-Wieden in the Netherlands. There are no roads here, and the visitor can view beautiful thatched farms, lakes, reed beds, forests, wooden bridges, and greenery. This town is also gay-friendly, because it is located in the first country to recognize gay marriage in 2001.

Here is a step-by-step guide for travel to Giethoorn, and how to explore its beauty, culture, and community:

Book Your Flight to Amsterdam

Amsterdam

Plan your trip to Amsterdam, because from there, you can travel to Giethoorn.  There are numerous flights that go to Amsterdam, and here are cheap flights that were recently found by travelers. The flight will arrive at Amsterdam Airport Schipol, which has shopping and dining to occupy your time. If you decide you want to stay in Amsterdam for a while before traveling to Giethoorn and have booked a hotel, then the Schipol Hotel Shuffle can take you there.  

Once you are ready to travel, then from Amsterdam Airport Schipol, you can take the bus or boat to travel to Giethoorn.  You can also travel by train, if you wish, and you can use 9292 to plan your trip.  

Plan Your Stay in Giethoorn

Hotel de Pergola. Source: Booking.com

If you plan to stay in Giethoorn for longer than a day, then book your stay in the hotel of your choice. Above is a photo of the Hotel de Pergola, which is situated on the waterfront, but there are also other great options. There are some reasonably priced places to stay, such as the Fletcher Hotel Restaurant de Eese-Giethoorn, which has an outdoor tennis court, a national park, restaurant, and indoor pool. One traveler recommended another place, the Hotel Giethoorn because it was super cozy.  

Day 1: Travel on a Boat in the Town with No Roads

Travelers on boats. Source: A Wanderlust for Life

There are many things you can do on your first day here, and one option is to travel on a boat, because after all, this charming town has no roads, but it does have water. Canoe trails are 90 kilometers long!  In fact, the postman has to travel by punt boat, to deliver mail.  

You can rent kayaks, sailboats, and rowboats. If you want to boat by yourself, consider renting a whisperboat, which are open punter boats equipped with a silent electric motor (why it’s been given the name ‘whisper’). You can book your boat in advance, and you can even book a day tour which includes the whisperboat, coffee, sandwiches, drinks and dinner.  

Day 2: Go Cycling

The Giethoorn Weerribben cycling route. Source: Holland-Cycling.com

Another popular activity here is cycling. The Giethoorn Weeribben cycling route is 46 kilometers long, and there are thatched cottages, narrow bridges and wetlands on the way! You will see these at the farming village of Giethoorn. The route will also take you through the historic town of Blokzijl, the National Park De Wieden, and the villages of Jonen and Dwarsgracht.  

Day 3: Hike and Explore

Giethoorn. Source: Holland.com

If you want to explore Giethoorn more, and are a hiking enthusiast, then consider the 15.3 kilometer walking route, which starts at Eendrachtsplein, and then follows the green route.  There is a walking network which guides you, so follow the colored arrows. Sights to watch out for are canals, thatched farmhouses, and the largest lake of the Kop van Overikssel, the Beulakerwijde.  

Before You Go: What to Bring With You

Sunscreen

As you plan your trip, including flight, accommodation, and activities, consider what to bring with you.  Expect warm weather here, so bring sunscreen, lip balm and a hat.  But it can rain, so be sure to bring a raincoat and umbrella, so that you’re on the safe side.  Other items to include in your backpack are a camera, first aid kit, hiking boots, a torchlight, SD card, and shorts or pants with pockets.   

Where do you plan on vacationing this year?  If this European destination sounds good to you, then consider planning a trip.

 

Originally posted 2017-10-09 17:23:57.

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Love It, Leave It: The NYC (Pizza) Edition

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You’re beautiful, saucy, and sometimes too hot to hold. Aside from my family and friends, you’re the most important thing in the world to me. We could hang out every night of the week and I wouldn’t get sick of you. I love you (don’t tell my girlfriend). Oh boy — it’s a bit weird saying that aloud for the first time — especially in such a public forum. But, it just feels so right. The two of us were made for each other. You complete me, pizza.

I’m an Italian girl from Staten Island–what did you expect? :: insert stereotypical phrases like fuhggedaboudit and ay oh! here :: Eating pizza is one of my favorite pastimes and I’ve got plenty of favorites in NYC; this list will give you a feel for my top three joints.

Love It: Roberta’s. Denino’s. Rubirosa.

Roberta’s: A pie I’m willing to trek to Brooklyn for. This wood-fired pizza has been a Bushwick staple since before Bushwick was the hipster mecca it is today; it’s nearly a decade old. You’ll most likely have a hearty wait to fold (please don’t use a fork and knife) a slice here, but don’t give up. Once you get a spot, the bee sting is an inventive (soppressata, chili, honey), go-to order. I bet 10 pepperonis that you’ll be back.

Denino’s: Ah, puppy love. Denino’s and I have been in a long-term relationship since I had enough teeth to physically chew a slice. (Who are we kidding, I would’ve gummed it.) IMO, this is the OG pizza parlor from Staten Island — cash only, surly career waitresses, and no ambiance or dessert menu. If you want the authentic experience, take the ferry over and grab a cab here. But you lazy folk are in luck, because a new outpost opened up on MacDougal street this year. Despite getting asked without fail: “sauce on the whole pie?” I always order sausage and broccoli rabe, red. Never disappoints.

Rubirosa: This trendy, dimly-lit Italian spot is thankfully only a few blocks away from my apartment in NoLita. Coincidence? #nope. The iconic, thin-crust pizza has a sweet spot in my heart, as it happens to be crafted with the same recipe that has been around for decades at Joe & Pat’s (another must-try spot) in Staten Island. I maybe worked there in high school simply so I could eat slices on my break.

Leave It: Anything that says “99¢ or $1 pizza”‘

RUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUUN. Unless you have consumed enough drinks to knock out Floyd Mayweather, this is a terrible, horrible, unforgivable decision. You’ll have more regrets than that guy who got the “no regerts” tattoo. People who may love Domino’s or Pizza Hut might find nothing wrong with a cheap slice slathered in Prego-style sauce and an ambiguous Sargento cheese blend. But, any sensible ‘za lover will walk spritely by these unrefined joints with interrogation room lighting and never look back.

Originally posted 2017-10-09 16:45:50.

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