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Originally posted 2017-11-13 18:56:41.

Also published on Medium.

Robert was born and raised in Nashville, TN, but had a thirst for seeing the world around him. He currently lives in New York City. His adventures have taken him to all corners of the world, but favorites include: attending the Rio Summer Olympics, island hopping in the Philippines, tasting every gelato flavor her could find in Rome, and surviving a Colombian death cab ride in Bogota. Robert is an out and proud gay man and hopes to inspire other members of the LGBTQ+ community to tell their stories, both of travel and personal. His debut book, I Know Where I’ve Been: A Year Long Journey of Self-Discovery, recounts his adventures traveling North and South America for a year while diving into his past growing up gay in the conservative South.





You are planning a trip and have booked your flight, now it is time to pack!  Depending on your destination or the length of travel, your suitcase should be filled with items that will be comfortable for your leave. While everyone packs differently, there are certain things that are essential and should always be added to your carry-on- This will help you prepare you for the unexpected.


If you are traveling alone, with a group or significant other, make sure everyone has their documents, IDs and passports readily available when requested. As a backup, keep your information and photocopy of your passport stored on your phone. Try putting them in a travel document holder for better organization.


Never assume that you have enough battery juice to get you to your destination.  Anytime you have a few minutes to spare, charge your phone to give it quick boost of power. There is nothing worse than needing to use your phone in an emergency and not having enough battery life left.  Invest in a portable charger from Walmart, Amazon, or eBay for backup in case of emergency.


If you have essential medication that you take a regular basis, pack those in your carry-on. Don’t settle and just pack a day’s worth a meds, pack all of them. If you put them in your checked luggage, you are taking a risk with your health if your luggage is lost or stolen.  It also doesn’t hurt to pack over-the-counter medication as well.


First, never trust baggage handlers to treat your luggage delicately or gentle.  If you have anything fragile that you need to take with you on a trip, please put it in your carry-on bag.  Electronics are fragile and expensive to replace. Besides, you may need something to keep you occupied throughout your flight.

Remember laptops are not allowed in checked baggage because they have lithium batteries and are a fire risk. Because earbuds are crap and never last as long as you may want, pack an extra pair just in case.


Yes, it is 2017!  I know it is unfathomable but even with all this technology that airlines have, they can still lose your luggage.  Believe me, it can and still happens.

By packing a set of clothes and toiletries in your carry-on, you are guaranteeing that you have at least one set of changing clothes and can brush your teeth.  It also helps if you have an extended layover without access to your checked luggage.


Due to airline security, all liquids over a certain ounce will be rejected.  However, snacks are not.    Dollar Tree is to the go spot to stock up on snack at a reasonable price. Snacks are good in time of stress or simply when you are hungry. Airline peanuts and pretzels are not enough to fill you up.

Plus, if you are sitting next to cranky child or travel companion, try sharing some of your snacks with them. It may make your travel better.

What essentials do you always pack?  What do you feel was left off this list? Would love to read your thoughts and comments below.

Originally posted 2017-10-24 18:01:31.

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The Perfect North East Coast Road Trip



When you’re on a road trip, everything feels a little better. You get to experience the country on a much more intimate level and experience much more of it from the open road. On the East Coast, you can drive from the tropics of Florida up through the beachy coastal towns of the Carolinas, see New York City, and end up in the lush forests of Maine in just a few days. On the way, stop by the multitude of historical LGBTQ markers, places, and even night clubs. So what are you waiting for? Get out there!

This planner is written from Maine down to Pennsylvania but if you choose to follow it, you can easily do it the other way around, start at the middle, or cherry pick and make it your own!


With more same-sex couples than all but 6 states, Maine was once called “a mecca for gay couples” by the Press Herald. Of course, with numerous restaurants and things to do, Portland and Bangor are both worth a visit. Literary buffs would enjoy driving past Stephen King’s Bangor home and take a gander at its appropriately horror-themed decor. Meanwhile, Acadia National Park in the north attracts nature lovers. The many towns along the way are all worth taking an exit off the highway for and make sure to stop in for a lobster roll!

In the southeast of the state, a tiny town called Ogunquit prides itself on acceptance and individuality. Ogunquit, which means “beautiful place  by the sea” in the native Abenaki language started out as a small fishing village but soon became an artistic haven. Now many of the local shops, restaurants, and hotels are proudly LGBTq-operated. It’s main village only has a population of 1200 people, but in the summer months it comes alive with travellers from all walks of life.

New Hampshire:

Northern New England’s openness continues eagerly into New Hampshire where the white mountains beckon to nature lovers. The old man of the mountain may not be there anymore but profile lake still is, and it provides a great backdrop to a foggy day. In the fall, the mountains are ablaze with autumnal colors.

Throughout the state there are a variety of gay-friendly and gay-operated inns, restaurants, and bars. The sleepy towns are quiet but peaceful.


In 2000, the Vermont Supreme Court ruled that same-sex couples were entitled to the same rights and benefits as their hetero counterparts and became the first state in the US to give full marriage rights to same-sex unions. At the time, this caused some outrage from the state’s more conservative populace but against acceptance and reason, those voices never stood a chance.

Burlington, the state’s most populous city, is actually the least populous in the country to hold that title but that does not mean it’s anything but lively. Along the water, festivals are constantly bustling and the farmer’s market offers fresh fruits, novelty ices, and local IPA’s. In the town, the main street is an outdoor mall with small businesses and of course, a Ben and Jerry’s location. Make sure to keep on the lookout for Bernie.


On the tip of Cape Cod, Provincetown is a well-known LGBTQ haven but that’s not the only hotbed of gay culture. In fact, in 2003, Massachusetts became the first state in the US to legalize same-sex marriage. There’s a lot more to Massachusetts than Cape Cod, however.

Outside of the obvious choice of Boston, Northhampton offers a perfect haven for LGBTQ travellers and according to Jezebel, it’s one of the most “lesbianish” cities in the country. Plenty of local businesses are owned by members of the LGBTQ community and the college town prides itself on Pride. If that doesn’t sell you, its rainbow crosswalk just might.


Mystic, Connecticut has a population of only 4,000 people but it’s one of the most revered towns to visit. The tiny town is filled with coffee shops and bookstores that pull you in, and the Mystic Aquarium is great for kids as well as adults. Seafood is aplenty and delicious.

Outside of Mystic, Connecticut is a lively state, and larger cities like Hartford offer a large LGBTQ community where gay businesses thrive.

Rhode Island:

Rhode Island may be the smallest state but it has a lot to offer. This beachy, breezy, coastal state is only about an hour’s drive all around. Its biggest city, Providence, is home to RI Pride and celebrates itself as an artsy town. Literary lovers might not want to miss the chance to seek out the grave of HP Lovecraft. There’s also “TAG Approved” hotels and locations that LGBTQ+ travelers can check out.

On your way south of the city, stop by Olneyville New York Station for some local hot dogs and a cool glass of coffee milk.

New York:

There’s a lot more to New York than New York. In fact, there’s a ton more. In the north east, the dense Adirondack wilderness offers camping, hiking, kayaking, or just a quiet day on the lake, while in the west, Rochester provides all your city comforts. New York state is huge and there is no one list that can cover it all.

Of course there’s Broadway, but there’s also miles upon miles of untouched coastline, sleepy mountain towns, and plenty of farmland. State parks are aplenty throughout and I Love NY offers LGBTQ travellers great resources.


Whether you’re in the City of Brotherly Love, or the Steel City, you’re bound to be in for a treat. Pennsylvania offers LGBTQ travelers plenty of resources and openness. As long as you’re wearing the right team’s colors, you’re going to be welcomed with open arms.

On the west side of the state, Pittsburgh is home to the Andy Warhol museum, the Mexican War Streets, and of course, the black and gold. In the south east, Philadelphia has a great music scene, historical museums, and cheese steaks. The rivalries may never end but it’s all in good fun.

Have you been to any of these locations or are there any great places we missed? Share your road trip stories in the comments!

Originally posted 2017-10-24 16:42:05.

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The Perfect South East Coast Road Trip



Road trips are the most iconic way to travel and with so much diversity, the east coast is the perfect place to start. This guide focuses on Delaware down to Georgia, but you can do the drive any way you like. So what are you waiting for? Get the keys!


After Rhode Island, Delaware is the smallest state. It was also the first to become a state and there’s a lot of pride in that. In fact, one of the first things you see as you enter is the sign saying “Welcome to Delaware, it’s good to be first.” The state has an active LGBT community and Delaware Pride often holds events throughout the year including an annual festival and pageant.

Delaware has several smaller cities, like Wilmington and Dover, but its iconic beaches are what draw travelers to the state. Rehoboth is a great town which prides itself on being LGBT friendly. There are plenty of bars, hotels, and restaurants that are either operated by people in the LGBT community or advertise themselves as being openly supportive. CAMP Rehoboth is a local resource center that helps guide LGBT travelers and provide in-depth information. With no sales tax, the state is also great for shoppers.


Baltimore and Ocean City are fan favorites for good reason: both cities are thriving and progressive communities with plenty of attractions ranging from the boardwalk to the aquarium.

The state’s capital city, Annapolis, is also a progressive haven. Despite its military roots, Annapolis is less conservative than one might think. With a thriving LGBT community, the city comes to life through a combination of nightlife, restaurants, and places to stay. Annapolis is also just a short drive away from Washington DC. Check out Purple Roofs for a list of LGBT-owned and operated accommodations in the state.


Virginia is for lovers so surely, it’s for all lovers. The state hosts a tourism website on which they feature businesses that are self designated as LGBT owned or friendly. There are several larger cities like Richmond, Roanoke, and Norfolk that have plenty of beautiful sights to enjoy.

Nature and wildlife fans would enjoy a visit to Assateague Island. The island and nature reserve are split by Virginia and Maryland and it features herds of wild ponies that wander unrestricted throughout the marshland. Shenandoah National Park, which features gorgeous views of the layered Blue Ridge Mountain Range, is also located in Virginia.

North Carolina:

By the time you reach North Carolina you’re definitely getting into the south, which means warm weather and great barbeque. North Carolina is still undoubtedly conservative but like many other locations it is moving towards a more liberal mindset. Asheville and Raleigh are both progressive havens, especially the former which thrives as a college town. Unfortunately, the state’s legislation has turned away LGBT travelers but the controversial “Bathroom Law” was repealed in early 2017.

For outdoorsy folk, the Smoky Mountains seep into the state in the west and feature amazing hikes, forested paths, and beautiful vistas. The plentiful beaches along the state’s coast attract plenty of travelers during the summer and a trip to the Biltmore Estate is a year-round favorite.

South Carolina:

If you’re looking for southern hospitality, South Carolina is the place to be. With 47 state parks, numerous vibrant cities, and miles of coastline, the state is definitely worth visiting for more than just the tea. Hilton Head Island is a gay-friendly community which offers golf and beach relaxation.

Columbia, the state’s capital, holds South Carolina’s biggest pride festival. Hosted in September, it brings people of all backgrounds together and out on the streets. Meanwhile, Charleston offers a more laid back and historic vibe where you can visit forts and stroll down cobblestone streets. The city’s rustic appeal comes with a special charm and it attracts visitors from all over the country year-round. 


Georgia might have a bad rap for its conservatism but it’s largest city, Atlanta, is commonly referred to as the “gay capital” of the south. There, a liberal and progressive mentality thrives and its openness has attracted millions of visitors over the years. There’s even an official gay travel guide. The city is also filled with important markers for civil liberties.

Outside of Atlanta, Georgia is full of things to do. Stone Mountain, the state’s most popular destination, promises stellar views and is home to a multitude of festivals throughout the year. If you’re looking for a more rural experience, head to The Rock Ranch where you can partake in zip lining, seasonal activities, and even camp in a wagon.


Florida as a whole is a favorite travel location. With plenty of cities like Tampa, Orlando , and Miami, there are tons of things to do and whether you’re looking for a wild night out or a trip with the kids, you’re sure to find it here. Further south, the Everglades constantly intrigue travelers with hiking trails, camping, and the occasional warning to watch out for gators. While in major tourist destinations a liberal mindset definitely prevails, although the LGBT community is unfortunately still looked down upon especially in more rural areas.

Other than the obvious major cities, Florida is also home to less popular destinations that all still have open LGBT communities. For a posh, relaxing vacation, head to the Keys. Key West has been regarded as one of the “gayest” destinations by Lonely Planet and St Augustine is another historical city which boasts a great outdoor market and ritzy views.


Do you have an awesome east coast travel story or know of any cool places along the way? We’d love to hear about it in the comments!

Originally posted 2017-10-23 14:11:48.

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